16 Desires Cards
The 16 desires as cards you can print and cut out yourself. It has most of the same information you will find on the 16 desires chart. Having these as cards makes a big difference in sorting your own desires as you only have to look at one at a time. Make a game of getting to know people!
It is also fun to generate new characters by shuffling and drawing cards. It's a human personality simulator!
Play with the card and discover your own desires along with the desires of others. To play, have the first player look through the cards and make a stack of things that are important to them and ones that do not seem important. Put the important cards in a hierarchy of most important to least important. Then ask questions about recent things the player has done. For example, Then move to the next player. There are no wrong desires. It might worry you that someone wants something you do not want. Just remember that they are probably just as confused by what motivates you.
Get Stephen Reiss's original book on the 16 desires 'Who am I' here: https://amzn.to/2NVO3dc